Realizing

Sometimes i think im the only one.
the only one who feels confused
about every single thing in my life.
then you came into my life
and hit me like a bullet.
i could’nt get you out of my mind;
everything i knew about you seemed
like the perfect thing for me.
but you found out.
and you don’t feel the same way.
sometimes it hurts to know that no matter
how much time you put into thinking about someone,
it doesn’t have any effect on how
much they’ll think of you.
sometimes i feel alone,
as if you were the only one that could save me.
it was stupid to waste my time feeling lonely
because i knew in my heart that you’d never feel the same way.
sometimes i think you’re trying to hide yourself
from the people you hang out with.
sometimes i think you have so much more potential
than the other jerks.
but sometimes, you just have to realize
that we can’t just build up in our minds
who we want people to be.
chances are they’re not them,
and chances are they’ll never be.
the people you build a wall for
end up crashing into it themselves.
and sometimes, you have to realize:
he just dosen’t want you.
and it hurts.

Break Up

Months have gone by and you still cry over him? Wish things could go back to how they were?
Well im sad to say they are not.
There is nothing else like the type of hurt you are experiencing. I too have felt the type of pain that is no longer just your heart..it actually begins physically tearing you apart...sitting around moping and wishing he was there will not change anything though. only YOU can decide when it's time to get out of bed and start over. You wont be the same again, but now your just smarter and will take care of your heart better. Just remember that there will always be someone else out there for you and be happy you got the chance to experience that type of love in your life...imagine what life would be like had you never gotten that chance, be thankful.
"It is better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all."
Many girls just wish that they could've expierienced that magical feeling.
Know that you are not alone and that many girls go through this difficult situation of a breakup. Just pick your head up, be happy, have fun. Be availible to find that better man out there that you actually deserve.

The Harsh Truth

"No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing." ~hes just not that into you

Settling For Less

No girl should settle for less just because they feel they need someone in their life to make them happy.

"Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, It's a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life, Love shouldn't be one of them."

I know sometimes a girl just feels as if they do not have a boyfriend than they aren't special or just makes them feel sad. But this should never mean you have to settle for less. You are amazing and you should have a guy that treats you well and thinks you are the best girl ever. Being in a bad relationship or being used just hurts you in the long run. Love is not something that should be put to waste or used on someone that is not deserving of your love. If you wait and just let yourself be patient for the right guy, it'll be worth while.

Love?

"Its not love that hurts. its the infatuation with what we so blindly and foolishly accept as love that hurts. True love should never have to hurt"

Why do so many girls put themselves through the pain of being in "love" with a guy that doesn't love them back or treat them the way they deserve?
If it is true love, the guy should realize what an amazing person you are. If they don't than, move on. I know its easier said than done but its something that is needed. How can you find your prince charming if your dwelling on someone that doesn't find you his princess?
If a guy you love leaves you and breaks your heart, I know it can be very tough but dont be scared, that means theres someone else out there for you. Hes not your true love if he would do that. It just proves that hes not the right guy for you. If he can't realize how amazing you are and wants to waste his time on some other girl than its his problem, hes missing out. Theres always someone for everyone. A perfect person that will love you for you and never hurt you. Even if you do not think there is someone just give it time. Everyone needs to go through breakups and heartbreaks so that they can know exactly what they want in a guy. Heart breaks happen so that you can realize what an amazing guy you have when the right person does come along. Things must go wrong so you learn to appreciate them when they're right. And sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.